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you see when a friend does a work for
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you but let's let's say that job is a
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okay if a friend comes to do that job
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for you don't take because of say your
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friend then you decide to pay him little
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pay him the exact amount you think that
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job worth then allow that your friend to
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now tell you oh I collect just give me
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small thing you or even though he tells
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You give me anything with your mind
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is an ample opportunity for you to
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understand that say this your friend No
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say this thing is so amount of money but
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he wants to test you to know if actually
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you they interested in helping him if
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maybe he's in need you get because any
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work for if somebody's working for
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anybody that person is in need So that
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I'm working for you even though you're
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my friend it means I need that your
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money I need that your money So if your
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friend has finished working for you and
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that job that your friend did for you is
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worth 50K try as much as possible to pay
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that your friend that 50K
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then when you when you want when you are
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paying 50K if you say you should pay him
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lesser than that then you go ahead and
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give him lesser than that But the moment
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you give him boy take take 10,000 you my
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man The moment you do that
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you don't cut your relationship with
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that guy I mean he might smile over it
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There are some people who are like that
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You might smile over it but know that
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you have broken something
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Many people understand many people feel
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no believer but too many friendships
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don't end because of that because of say
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your your friend plumber you call and
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making come help you fix your maybe one
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or two pipes for your house and maybe
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you don't see that job where that if you
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call normal plumber for outside the guy
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the person will charge you like like 10k
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then because of say your guy he want
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carry like 2k give her it's very bad and
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if that person now comes 2k now you give
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normal transport money back to your
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house the person smile ask you whether
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this 2K now I can't give up
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if if you follow you they laugh at that
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point in time but you don't know that
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some you have spoiled something you have
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really really spoil something but many
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people feel find it difficult to
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understand all these things so if you
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is into a craft and you patronized to do
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a job for you pay him or her that amount
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the job worth if the person did not tell
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you the amount you amount he wants you
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to pay him just pay him the amount the
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job worth If he tells you that
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okay just give me just give me 10,000
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or maybe if the job is okay and he told
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you to give you 10,000 that the thing is
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coming from his heart you can even from
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your own out of your own bel
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give her make him know say no
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irrespective of the fact that your
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friend you still appreciate his work so
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that even when next time he's coming to
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do your job or he's coming to do another
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job for you he might even want to do it
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for free because He understands that you
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you are supporting his what his his his
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his means of survival You get but when
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you want do and based on say you want
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come through some unnecessary sense
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saying that your man be
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you know it the guy even the slack
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behind and you have you are losing a
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friend you are losing a friend which is
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very very bad I hope this video passes a
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great message I I'm pretty sure I have
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passed a message Please keep do keep
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your friendships Keep your keep your
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friendships Those your friends you know
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that they are good at this and you want
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to patronize them Please pay them their
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their appropriate fees so that
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you won't be causing any unnecessary
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hinch in your relationship I hope this
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video helps Do not to subscribe to this
