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Manipulative friends can make you question your sanity and as well make you feel less of yourself. Learn to escape from such kind of people. #nekenwatv #vlog #chikezienwariwe
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have you tried your best to reach out to
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friends that for a long time you've not
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spoken to neither have they called you
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on the phone to ask you about your
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wellbeing then they keep on making you
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to think or believe that you are the
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reason why their friendship or your
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friendship with
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them has a long time been stalled these
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people don't call you on the phone they
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don't check up on you but you are the
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person that once in a while call them to
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know how they are fairing and all they
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could tell you the moment you call them
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is you forgotten about me you no longer
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call me to know how I'm fairing whereas
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these people too from their own end have
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never for once thought it wise to call
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you see let me tell you something those
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set of people are are those who are very
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good at gaslighting people and they're
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also good at manipulating
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people if you have your way to leave
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that
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friendship please don't think it twice
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those set of people they don't they
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don't want you at all just leave them
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because you can't tell me that you who
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is also in the same country with me you
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know the situation of things you know
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how the mindset of the the young adults
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are wired you know what a growing adult
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the kind of mindset he or she has the
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kind of country we live in this country
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is a country
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that when when you as a growing adult
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begin to reason that hey it's high time
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you start making money it's high time
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you start sending money home it's high
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time you start taking some
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responsibilities you come to understand
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that there are some certain things that
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you used to do before you have stopped
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doing there are many friends you can no
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longer reach out to again but once in a
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while when you recall that hey you've
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got friends you need to call and you
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call them then the same friends who are
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of the same level with you or the same
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let's say your pair groups they'll start
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making you feel or think that is your
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fault that they are not reaching out or
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you are not reaching out or you are not
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communicating the best thing you're
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going to do for yourself is kick that
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relationship out you you don't need it
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you don't need that relationship because
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those set of people are manipulative
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nature they will manipulate you to the
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extent that you keep on asking yourself
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like you'll be questioning your your
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your sanity you questioning your your
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your
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your personality you know somebody will
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come out and tell you that hey we our
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friendship have been st for a long time
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because of you you no longer reach out
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no longer check okay is it because
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because maybe you you you have finished
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the higher institution and stuff like
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that hey this same person has not for
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once called you person has not for once
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called you to know how you are doing but
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to them you are the reason for why your
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friendship is no longer
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working i think that the best thing you
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can do for yourself is
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just let that friendship go like let it
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go allow allow yourself to have this
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better
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sanity work on your sanity because those
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people can manipulate the living day
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life out of you they can manipulate the
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living day life out of you i hope this
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video helps do to subscribe to this
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